A proven system to help Christian men break free from porn and masturbation without relying on willpower.
Claim Your SpotLongest streak I've ever had of not masturbating since pre-phone & computer (~7 years).
I haven't watched any porn or girls on my phone. Not one single time. I can't believe it sometimes.
Through God most of all, I have noticed significantly less temptation. I'm finally to a point where I abhor the sin.
I have little to no thoughts or urges of lust most days.
I'm relying on others instead of myself to escape, and as a result, I'm currently in the middle of the longest streak I've ever had!
I've been consistently in the Word and have been 2 months and 8 days without porn or masturbation.
No matter what I promised myself or what I did, I couldn't seem to stop. I thought I just needed more self-control in the moment of temptation.
But then I stumbled upon Solomon's wisdom in Ecclesiastes 10:10:
“If the blade is blunt, one must use more strength. But wisdom enables one to succeed.”
And what I realized blew my mind: true self-control isn't trying to have the strength in the moment... it's mastering the art of avoiding the moment altogether.
So I built an inverse approach to make lust as easy as possible to defeat — with the tools to keep temptation far away and the habits to reshape your heart to desire God more than you desire sin.
I have experienced that freedom.
Our clients have experienced that freedom.
And it would be our honor to help you experience it too.
Foolproof systems to make temptation easy to flee.
The early Church method for starving escape methods.
Fighting every brother's battle together.
Book a call with Nate to see if you're the right fit for our transformation process.
This is the baseline of your journey with us.
You'll discover where you're at in 10 key categories — showing you the underlying reasons you've stayed stuck and a clear path to break free from the cycle.
Our goal is to help you increase your score until you're at the 1010 Standard of 80%.
Absolutely not.
We aren't pretending to sell you "secret knowledge the elites don't want you to know" like the course gurus will try to do.
We also won't act like just having a blocker will solve the problem, because let's be honest, you've probably already tried that and found a loophole.
You need a strategy that doesn't just rely on how much you "feel like it," otherwise you'll waste your time and $$$ without real heart and mind change.
I have zero doubt that you have tried hard to make a change up to this point.
I was the same way — spending hours watching videos on how to quit, installing blockers, making promises to myself, and so on.
And those things are absolutely important, but they alone are not enough because simply trying harder is just going to make it more painful when you do inevitably fall.
Satan has hijacked your flesh, your mind, and your eyes, so constantly being tempted via those access points will eventually lead to you losing.
That is why we follow an inverse approach: make lust as easy as possible to defeat.
Imagine how it would feel to not even have lust on your mind?!
That's what we build: Framework where temptation is as far away as possible at all times, fasting so that your impulses no longer rule you, and fellowship with men who get you to look outside yourself and focus more on the man you're becoming, not the man you are.
We plan to win, but we are prepared for a misstep.
I tell everyone that before they join because if you expect too much out of yourself out of the gates, you will get puffed up with pride and isolate yourself in shame if God forbid you do cave.
We have built a culture of men who share their battles without shame or condemnation. We won't coddle you, but we will be with you every step of the way as we help you get back up on your feet and keep moving forward.
That said, for many of the guys in the 1010 Method, they have been able to stay completely pure and are walking in freedom by God's grace.
Maybe. Maybe not.
This is for Christian men who are ready to take ownership, immerse themselves in the process, and fight alongside other men.
We are selective with who joins because every man in the cohort affects the rest of the brotherhood.
You are likely not a good fit if:
If you are ready to fight for freedom and become the man God is calling you to be, book a call with me so we can determine if this is the right fit.
Any other questions? Email nate@mmbrotherhood.com